Life partner? What we seek in life partner?

Life partner? What we seek in life partner?


What we seek in a partner? a companion? a sex partner? or?

Different people going for different thing in life and relationship. Some people go for appearance, where they go for the one with the best look. Some people go for sex, where sex is the main reason why they want a relatioship? And some people go for money, where they are looking for rich partner which can provide everything to them in life. So what you seek in a partner?

As the society progress, people are getting more and more self centered. At the same time, people also getting more and more empty. So they started to find a partner to shower them love, to take care of them and to love them. But as more and more people wanted such a relationship, who will be the one whom will give and contribute in a relationship?

Read an article from newsppaper, it was talking about how a couple complement each other in life, how they help each other in life, and how they support each other in life. To me, this is what i am seeking in a relationship. Someone whom can complimen each other in life, someone will be holding hand together to face the tougher challenge in life, someone who give but wasnt calculate how much was given. This are the thing which will make a relationship last.

does such a relationship still exist?

I want my partner to be like this, like that, have this quality and be able to do that. But have you ask yourself, are you able to do the samething in the first place?

Spark of love. For most people love will fade, but when it fade, how do you want to change it? Some people choose to let go and start a search for another love. Which at the end he/she will be forever in the cycle of seeking love. Some people choose to upgarde it into another level of love. The love evolve from love from a lover to love from a family member which is part of our life. There might not be passionate love, but there is definitely life long love as the partner is already part of our life which cant be seperated.